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Yes, you are correct. The initial change enumeration process needs to complete before you can add the server endpoint to the sync group. During the initial change enumeration process, Azure File Sync scans the Azure file share to identify all the files and folders that need to be synchronized with the server endpoint. This process can take some time, depending on the number of files and folders in the share.
You can check the status of the initial change enumeration process by going to the Azure portal and selecting the Storage Sync Service that you created. Then, select the Sync Group that you created and click on the "Cloud endpoints" tab. You should see the Azure file share that you added to the sync group. If the initial change enumeration process is still ongoing, you will see a message that says "Initial sync pending" next to the Azure file share
Once the initial change enumeration process is complete, you should be able to add the server endpoint to the sync group. To do this, go to the "Server endpoints" tab in the Sync Group and click on the "Add server endpoint" button. Select the server that you want to add and follow the prompts to complete the process.
For more information, refer to this article: https://zcusa.951200.xyz/en-us/azure/storage/file-sync/file-sync-server-endpoint-create?tabs=azure-portal
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